10 patarimų, kurie padės atkreipti vaikino dėmesį. 2 dalis



Taigi, vėl sveikinuosi su jumis ir nieko nelaukdama keliu likusius 5 punktus, kurie padės atkreipti vaikino dėmesį. Tikiuosi, kad jie duos jums naudos J

6.  UŽKALBINK JĮ!

Jei atrodysime tik gražiai, ir bandysime vaikiną suvilioti tik iš proto vedančiu žvilgsniuku – mūsų visos pastangos bus bevertės.
Laikas išaugti iš to mąstymo, kad viską turi daryti vaikinas. Metas imtis darbo jums!
Taigi pirmasis ir labai svarbus žingsnis – vaikino užkalbinimas. Taigi, kaip tai padaryti?
  • ·         Kurį laiką pastebėk vaikiną. Kurioje jis vietoje dažniausiai būna ir kokiu metu.
  • ·         Pasirink dieną, kai atrodysi SUPER gražiai.
  • ·         Giliai įkvėpk ir be jokios kopmanijos šalia (draugių, klasiokių) tiesiog judėk link jo.
  • ·         Nepanikuok, kad šalia bus jo draugai.
  • ·         Priėjusi švelniai ranka paliesk jo petį. Tada jis atsisuks.
  • ·         Palaikyk akių kontaktą, tai labai svarbu!
  • ·         Pradėk pokalbį.

Geriausia pradžia, manau, būtų tokia:
„- Labas, gal žinai kiek valandų? Telefonas išsikrovė, - kukliai nusišypsai.“
Po jo atsakymo, tiesiog padėkoji ir pasakai:
„- Beje, tu (jo vardas, pvz – Tomas), tiesa? Aš (tavo vardas, pvz – Aistė“
Palauk kol jis kažką atsakys ir galiausiai nueik sakydama, kad tau laikas eiti.
·         Nueik labai drąsiu ir ne per greitu žingsniu.
·         Svarbiausia, atsipalaiduok! Neturi atrodyti susikausčiusi!

DAŽNIAUSIAI DAROMOS KLAIDOS.
1.    Perdaug grubus prisilietimas
2.       Blogas burnos kvapas
3.       Vietoj rišlaus kalbėjimo – nevalyvas mikčiojimas
4.       Išraudonavimas
5.       Galvos nuleidimas, akių kontakto nutraukimas
6.       Paklausus kiek valandų, parodymas jog tavo telefonas toli gražu neišsikrovęs
7.       Nuėjimas susikūprinus, arba tiesioginis bėgimas.

7. DĖMESYS.
Jau žengėme pirmą žingsnį, užkalbinome jį. Po šio žingsnio vaikinas pradės tave matyti minioje, įsimins tavo veidą. Tai tarsi parodymas, kad „Alio, aš egzistuoju!“ . Ką daryti toliau?
Pasistenk, kad jis tavęs nepamirštų. Kaip?
  •     ·         Šypsokis jam mokykloje
  •     ·         Pamirksėk akimi
  •     ·         Kartais „Netyčia“, tačiau nesmarkiai atsitrenk į jį.
  •     ·         Pamačiusi jį, ir pajuti, kad vaikinas į tave žiūri, apsimesk, kad jo nematai ir tiesiog pradėk žaist su savo plaukais, o kalbėdamasi su draugėmis, visada šypsokis.
  • ·         Pasikviesk jį į Facebook.

DAŽNIAUSIAI DAROMOS KLAIDOS.
  • 1.       Per didelis dėmesys
  • 2.       Pastovus stebėjimas
  • 3.       Per dažni ir per stiprūs stumdymai! (Su šituo punktu ir patarimu atsargiai! Patariama tai padaryti tik vieną kartą, ir taip ,kad atrodytų nevalingai)
  • 4.       Nepradėk jo ignoruoti per dažnai!

Pirmieji žingsneliai padaryti! Tu jau dabar atkreipei jo dėmesį. Tačiau, kaip jį išlaikyti? Žiūrėk sekantį žingsnį.

8. FACEBOOK.
Mes esame laimės kūdikiai, jog turime tokį gerą draugą , kaip facebook. Kaip juo pasinaudoti kalbant apie vaikinus?
  • ·         Pasikviesk jį į draugus
  • ·         Pradėk spaust like ant jo nuorodų (pvz dainų, nuotraukų, būsenų)
  • ·         Galiausiai sukaupk drąsą ir parašyk jam!

Dažniausiai visos susimąstome , ką gi galėtume jam parašyti? Bet tai  iš ties nėra taip sunku, kaip gali pasirodyti. Pradėk nuo elementaraus žodelio „Labas J“. Kadangi seki jo įkeliamas dainas, būsenas, tai gali tapti pretekstu ką jam parašyti. Patiko kokia nors daina? Valio. Tiesiog parašyk jam, pagirk jo muzikinį skonį ir tiesiog paprašyk lyg ir pagalbos, kad atsiųstų daugiau kokių dainų nuorodų. Vuolia! Pradžia padaryta!

DAŽNIAUSIAI DAROMOS KLAIDOS.
  • 1.       Nesveikas like‘inimas! Nepradėk eit per jo visus nuotraukų albumus, ir like‘int visas jo senas nuotraukas. Nes taip tik parodysi, kad skersai išilgai naršai po jo anketą, kas nelabai gerai.
  • 2.       Per dažnas rašymas
  • 3.       Rašymas tik su tekstu „ką darai?“, „ką tu?“ ir pnš.
  • 4.       Nesveikas prilipimas. Matai jos jis nelabai kalbus šiandien? Mandagiai atsisveikink su juo ir bandyk kitą kartą.
  • 5.       Per didelis kiekis „žvengų“. Pasirodyk kultūringa ir subrendusi!

9. TELEFONO NUMERIS.
Didžiausiais visų merginų galvos skausmas, kaip gauti telefono numerį. Patarčiau nepadaryti klaidos ir neieškoti jo per drauges ar pnš. Geriausias variantas – paprašyti pačio jo.
Kaip tai padaryti? Pasinaudok facebook! Kai jau būsi padariusi gerą pradžią bendraudama per ten, tiesiog parašyk jam:
„Žiūrėk, aš dabar turiu lėkti. Tai gal pratęsiam pokalbį per tel? J
Jei norit, galit prikabinti iškart ir savo numerį, arba palaukti jo atsakymo.
Kodėl neprašyti aplinkinių žmonių jo numerio?
  • ·         Prarastum papildomą galimybę pabendrauti su juo pačiu
  • ·         Gali būti taip, kad vaikinas nenorės su tavimi bendrauti, o gavusi jo numerį iš kažkur, jam įkyrėsi.
  • ·         Parodysi, kad nori iš pradžių būti su juo tik gerais draugais, jei numerio paprašysi jo.
  • ·         Pasiodysi labiau supbrendusi ir vertesnė dėmesio, jei numerio paprašysi jo.

10. NEPATINKI – PALIK.
Merginos, turime susitaikyti ir su tuo, kad ne visada gyvenimas – rožėmis klotas. Tad net ir išbandžius visus mano patarimu, jei vaikino vis dėl to nesužavėjote – nenukabinkite nosies.
Ne visi vaikinai mums tinka, nevisiems tinkame ir mes.
Tad jei matai, jog vaikinas nerodo didelio susidomėjimo bendrauti su tavim – nelysk.
Tiesiog susitaikyk su ta mintim, kad jei jis nesužavėjo tavimi tokia kokia esi – jis tavęs nevertas.
Nenukabink nosies, palik jį ir ieškok naujos aukos, nes jei nepatikai vienam - patiksi kitam!.

Štai merginos ir visi 10 punktų. Tikiuosi, kad bent kažkiek jums pagelbėjau. Nes rašiau tai būtent dėl jūsų, nes žinau, kad daugelis merginų nežino kaip vis dėl to patraukti vaikiną savo pusėn. Tad linkiu jums sėkmės išbandant mano patarimus! Man būtų labai įdomu sužinoti, kaip jums visoms sekėsi, tad štai mano ask.fm  : http://ask.fm/LauraZiup. Rašykit! Reikia dar kokių patarimų – rašykit!
Visada jūsų paslaugoms – Laura.

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